Lojong Practice 2: Ultimate and Relative Boddhichitta

I am using Weeping Buddha and the lojong sayings and commentary from Training the Mind and Cultivating Loving-Kindness by Chogyam Trungpa as a study, together.
I’ve been practicing
tonglen for almost three decades, and it is my main practice.
This is the eighth weekly installment.  To start at the beginning go here.

2014 2 LOJONG 300dpi copyI am starting again with the preliminaries,which I haven’t read in a long while.  Preliminaries are important concepts or truths.  I take notes from Trungpa, but I translate all this into my current understanding, such as it is in any given moment.  It is all I can ever do, which is why I continue to study these teachings.

Boddhichitta translates as an awakened mind-heart.

I relate to having an open heart as having compassion for the pain and suffering of even and maybe especially my enemy.  Worst case scenarios are good for testing your ability to have an open heart.

I may need to draw boundaries, and I also see that even my enemy is suffering, has desires, wishes, loved ones, a life, and has been hurt.  It took me 20 years to come to understanding how to stand in one spot, grounded in this time and space, with the dichotomy of fear and aggression and boundaries or even having to close a door on a hurtful alcoholic family member, while also in the same moment being able to not shut down, to feel all the human feelings, and to send love to the one who is potentially dangerous in a very real way.  During the course of getting sober I found that alcohol covered up so much anger and pain of my own.  I believe many alcoholics drink not to feel the uncomfortable and painful feelings.  So in this case, a good example and personal scenario, I can say that now I can feel the sadness for the path toward destruction, feel the hopelessness and fear of the alcoholic family member, know that I may need to say no or otherwise draw boundaries, and simply, to love them.  Love them in the moment and with all my heart, while drawing safe boundaries as may be necessary.  This is a huge leap from what I was raised with, and allows me to feel some of the spaciousness of which Trungpa speaks.

Relative boddhichitta is that spark of openness and urge toward compassion for everyone.  It often becomes the commitment toward the Boddhisattva Vow, or committing to the path to awaken for the benefit of all beings.  I had to awaken compassion for my own sorry path first.  As I did this through sending and taking, compassion grew.  I aspire for ultimate boddhichitta, and must work continually on emptying my monkey-mind!  (Ssssh, can you hear it chattering!?!)

Alaya is a state of non-fear, openness, before there was the division of ego.  I have only glimpsed that state in meditation, and so, it is a goal to experience, not one I can discuss well.

Next week, Friendliness . . .  or more preliminaries!

In this weekly commentary on the lojong, I am not open to the feed becoming
a debate for people to nitpick Buddhism or my interpretations of Buddhist concepts.
(There are lots of places for debates.)  I am more interested in hearing about
YOUR life or how it affected you or your practice awakening in some manner.
For more info about why, go here.


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3 Responses to Lojong Practice 2: Ultimate and Relative Boddhichitta

  1. susanissima says:

    Hi Katie,
    Tried to read your post but my mind is in too much of a fog over Jorge at the moment. Will take some deep breaths and try again later, knowing there is wisdom to be gleaned from you wonderful writing/images. ❤

  2. Reblogged this on D.Katie Powell Art and commented:

    Mostly Buddhism, and a drawing, my practice. . .

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